How To Divorce Amicably
January 2025
Divorce can be both emotional and challenging. However, there is no reason why the divorce process cannot be amicable to create a smoother and less stressful experience.
This summary provides general information and does not constitute legal advice on any individual circumstances.
Here are some steps to help you navigate an amicable divorce:
1. Open Communication
The foundation of an amicable divorce is open, honest and respectful communication. Both parties should be willing to discuss their concerns, expectations and needs moving forward. This doesn’t mean avoiding difficult subjects but rather discussing them constructively. Being clear about your goals while being empathetic to your partner’s position helps foster understanding and cooperation.
2. Listen and Understand
It is important that you really listen and understand what is important to each other. You may have different priorities moving forward and that needs to be acknowledged and understood by the other person.
3. Consider Mediation
If you’re finding it difficult to communicate effectively, it might be worth considering professional mediation, where a neutral third party can help facilitate the discussion. A mediator is an independent professional who helps both parties negotiate and reach agreements on key issues such as financial settlements and arrangements for the children.
Mediation can be a quicker and cheaper alternative to going through the courts, and because both parties are involved in the decision-making process, the final outcome is often more satisfactory and tailored to the unique needs of the family.
4. Seek Legal Advice (Even in Amicable Cases)
While mediation and cooperation are at the heart of an amicable divorce, it’s always advisable to seek legal advice, even if you’re not going through an adversarial process. A solicitor can help you understand your rights and ensure that any agreements you reach are fair and reasonable.
If you reach an agreement through mediation, you may only need one solicitor to draft and review the agreement, for example via our Together We Part Service where we can act for both of you. However, if you and your partner choose to have separate legal representation, your solicitors can ensure that the final settlement is fair for both parties.
5. File for Divorce Using the New No-Fault Process
In April 2022, the “no-fault” divorce process was introduced. Under this process, couples no longer have to assign blame to one party for the marriage breakdown, which usually reduces conflict between the parties. This change has made the divorce process smoother, quicker and easier for couples who wish to divorce amicably.
Under the new system, one or both spouses can apply for a divorce based on the simple fact that the marriage has irretrievably broken down. The process is far less confrontational, and it allows couples to focus on reaching a fair and amicable financial settlement without the added stress of proving fault in the divorce.
6. Take Your Time
Divorce is a major life event, and it’s important to take your time to think things through. Rushing through the divorce process might lead to hasty decisions that don’t reflect your true intentions or long-term interests. Give both yourself and your partner time to reflect and carefully consider all the terms before finalising anything.
Taking your time can also allow for any emotional reactions to settle, making it easier to discuss and resolve the issues in a calm, rational way. Remember, this is a new chapter for both parties, so making thoughtful, well-informed decisions is crucial.
How Can Fullers Help?
At Fullers Family Law, we offer a range of services to assist parties with divorcing amicably. We have experienced mediators who can help parties to reach an agreement via mediation. In the alternative, we can finalise any agreement that is reached by using our Together We Part Service. We also offer fixed fees to assist with the divorce process.
For an initial discussion and a no-obligation quote, get in touch with us today by simply calling us on 01234 343134, filling in the contact form below, or emailing us at enquiries@fullersfamilylaw.com and a member of our team will get back to you.
